{"id":3781,"date":"2012-07-30T22:00:21","date_gmt":"2012-07-31T02:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/?p=3781"},"modified":"2024-12-03T16:18:44","modified_gmt":"2024-12-03T21:18:44","slug":"business-and-the-bffs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/?p=3781","title":{"rendered":"Business and the BFF&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Linda-Carmelita-s.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3785\" title=\"30 Linda Carmelita s\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Linda-Carmelita-s-300x224.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"224\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Linda-Carmelita-s-300x224.jpg 300w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Linda-Carmelita-s.jpg 825w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Linda Burton posting from Edmonds, Washington while traveling between Juneau, Alaska and Helena, Montana <\/em>\u2013 Okay, okay, capital cities are great, and two-year journeys across the entire United States are awesome. But sometimes you need to stop and take care of business. It had been six months since I last visited the dentist at home in Alabama; how fortunate that my former dentist from Seattle days could schedule me in today! Taking care of business. And the Scion; another 5,000 miles have added up since that Austin, Texas checkup at Charles Maund Toyota back in March, so a visit to Magic Toyota in Edmonds was on tap too. It\u2019s all about maintenance. But the most important item on the ticket is touching base with friends. It\u2019s been almost three years since I left the Pacific Northwest; but super news, Carmelita and Jennifer both can get together with me in my waning hours before I start driving east again. <!--more--><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-mexican.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-3787\" title=\"30 Jennifer mexican\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-mexican-225x300.jpg\" width=\"180\" height=\"240\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-mexican-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-mexican-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 180px) 100vw, 180px\" \/><\/a>Carmelita and Jennifer. One my former co-worker, one my former bus-mate, working together and riding together every weekday during ten years at the University of Washington.\u00a0 A lot of times shared, both good and bad; a lot of headaches weathered through. A lot of jokes! A lot of code words and understanding nods; a lot of wisdom bandied back and forth. You know what I mean. A little tune started bobbing around in my head; I stopped to look up the lyrics. Remember the old <em>I Love Lucy<\/em> TV show? Back in the 50\u2019s Lucy and Ethel sang a song about friendship on one episode; actually, on more than one. <em>Friendship<\/em> is a Cole Porter tune; it was on Broadway in <em>Anything Goes<\/em>; it was in a film of the same name. It says it all!\u00a0<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>If you&#8217;re ever in a jam, here I am<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>If you&#8217;re ever in a mess, S-O-S<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>If you ever feel so happy, you land in jail; I&#8217;m your bail.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>It&#8217;s friendship, friendship, just a perfect blendship.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>When other friendships have been forgot,<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Ours will still be hot.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>\u00a0<\/em><em>If you ever lose your mind, I&#8217;ll be kind. <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>If you ever lose your shirt, I&#8217;ll be hurt. <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>If you&#8217;re ever in a mill and get sawed in half, I won&#8217;t laugh. <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>It&#8217;s friendship, friendship, just a perfect blendship, <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>When other friendships have been &#8220;forgate&#8221; <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Ours will still be great! <\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u201cFriendship\u201d songs have been almost instant hits over the years, and they stick in our minds forever, for what is better than celebrating a friend? James Taylor had a #1 hit with <em>You\u2019ve Got a Friend<\/em> in 1971; Bill Withers went straight to #1 on the pop charts with <em>Lean on Me<\/em>. And there are those TV theme songs \u2013 <em>Thank You For Being A Friend<\/em> introduced us to Golden Girls Dorothy and Blanche and Rose for years; <em>I\u2019ll Be There For You<\/em> makes us think of Friends Rachel and Monica and Phebes to this day (we must like watching friends interact, both shows are still in reruns all over the place).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/29-Carmelita-Car.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-3790\" title=\"29 Carmelita Car\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/29-Carmelita-Car-300x198.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/29-Carmelita-Car-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/29-Carmelita-Car-1024x677.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a>Carmelita and I went out for Chinese; steamed rice and shrimp with walnuts and pots and pots of tea. Jennifer and I shared Mexican; steamed tortillas and prawns with mushrooms and garlic and baskets of chips. But of course the most important thing we shared was talking time. I thought about researching friendships from the pages of history; I thought of writing about the westward migration; the friends left behind, and the friends gained along the trail, so I could make this a more historical post. <a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-Car-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright  wp-image-3793\" title=\"30 Jennifer Car 2\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-Car-2-300x225.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-Car-2-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/30-Jennifer-Car-2-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But heck, it\u2019s enough to say that friendships continue solid; no matter where any of us are at any moment in time. And Carmelita and Jennifer love the Scion!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Linda Burton posting from Edmonds, Washington while traveling between Juneau, Alaska and Helena, Montana \u2013 Okay, okay, capital cities are great, and two-year journeys across the entire United States are awesome. But sometimes you need to stop and take care of business. It had been six months since I last visited the dentist at home [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4586],"tags":[1137,1139,1138,968],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3781"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3783,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781\/revisions\/3783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}