{"id":19294,"date":"2022-08-28T10:07:29","date_gmt":"2022-08-28T14:07:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/?p=19294"},"modified":"2022-08-31T13:08:13","modified_gmt":"2022-08-31T17:08:13","slug":"traveling-companionably","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/?p=19294","title":{"rendered":"Traveling Companionably"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/AlexandJack.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-19299\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/AlexandJack.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"374\" height=\"253\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/AlexandJack.jpg 566w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/AlexandJack-300x203.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 374px) 100vw, 374px\" \/><\/a>Linda Lou Burton posting from Little Rock, Arkansas<\/em> \u2013 I\u2019ve traveled a lot with my cats, Alex and Jack. John Steinbeck traveled with his French poodle, Charley. Mark Twain traveled with various folks in his lifetime, firm in his belief that \u201ctravel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one&#8217;s lifetime.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Bourdain.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-19295\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Bourdain.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"331\" height=\"248\" \/><\/a>Anthony Bourdain is the kind of companion I would choose to travel with; my favorite traveler of all time. What he has done, and seen, and filmed, and \u00a0written about is out there for all to see; his gritty, unflinching view of the world as it is, and his insistence on telling the truth about it. And he saw travel as a two-way ride; \u201ctravel changes you,\u201d he said. \u201cAs you move through this life and this world you change things slightly, you leave marks behind, however small. And in return, life \u2013 and travel \u2013 leaves marks on you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>As I began considering a visit to Africa some years ago, I thought about how such a trip would change me, and, of what kind of companion might approach this venture with attitudes similar to mine. Most people I knew had no desire to go to Africa! I had friends who had been; one on a mission to change things there; a few on a mission to climb a mountain; a few daring to race across the desert. I wanted to go to experience Africa, to meet people who live there, and to go away understanding the world a little bit better.<\/p>\n<p>So I made a list, and whittled it down.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>1st off the list \u2013 the Comparer! You know what I mean: \u201cWe don\u2019t do things THAT way where I live!\u201d \u201cMY family always did it THIS way!\u201d<\/li>\n<li># 2 \u2013 the Whiner. \u201cIt\u2019s too hot. It\u2019s too noisy. It\u2019s too far. It stinks! I&#8217;m tired!\u201d<\/li>\n<li># 3 \u2013 the Scaredy-Cat. \u201cI\u2019m not eating THAT! I can\u2019t climb THAT! I\u2019m not getting MY feet wet!\u201d<\/li>\n<li># 4 \u2013 the Bore. Droning on all day about nothing.<\/li>\n<li># 5 \u2013 the Rigid. It\u2019s got to be their way. Precise. No changes. No spontaneity! Point A straight to Point B, no stops, even to pee!<\/li>\n<li># 6 \u2013 the Conjoined Twin. Connected to your hip. You can\u2019t make a move without them, and they want to drag you everywhere they go.<\/li>\n<li># 7 \u2013 the Humorless. Absolutely nothing is fun, or funny. No smiles.<\/li>\n<li># 8 \u2013 the Blatantly Insensitive. Sneery nose up at anything different. No respect for others, their customs, or their way of life.<\/li>\n<li># 9 \u2013 the Martyr. Jumps around to \u201ccaregive\u201d instead of allowing others to do what they can.<\/li>\n<li>#10 \u2013 the Short Fuse. Blam!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Rick.Yard_.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-19306\" src=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Rick.Yard_-252x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"176\" height=\"210\" srcset=\"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Rick.Yard_-252x300.jpg 252w, https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/Rick.Yard_.jpg 393w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/><\/a>An easygoing manner, a good sense of humor, and a taste for adventure top the &#8220;desirables&#8221; list. A willingness to try something new. A relentless curiosity. A Bourdain! I asked my retired son Rick (who had long expressed an interest in Italy) if he had a choice, where would he want to go \u2013 Africa, Europe, or Asia? He didn\u2019t hesitate \u2013 \u201cWell, Africa! Anybody can go to Europe. A trip to Africa would be the trip of a lifetime.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Next step completed: my Africa travel companion chosen. Now, the planning. And the wait through the COVID years.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Linda Lou Burton posting from Little Rock, Arkansas \u2013 I\u2019ve traveled a lot with my cats, Alex and Jack. John Steinbeck traveled with his French poodle, Charley. Mark Twain traveled with various folks in his lifetime, firm in his belief that \u201ctravel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[4318,4319],"tags":[4325,4335,4337,4336,362,752],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19294"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19294"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19294\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19310,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19294\/revisions\/19310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/capitalcitiesusa.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}